Love through Cyberspace - What on earth did I think of? 2008

Many friends and family (and others) have been wondering about why Jew and I decided to get married so quickly and without having met in person? But ....... last year I knew that my life had to make a U-TURN in 2008. Dont ask how and why - I just knew! Through long time I was chatting with a lot of people around the world - not looking for anything but friends.
 But on March 3, 2008 Jew wrote to me and when I saw her pictures and shortly after was chatting with her I knew that THIS woman was more than special! Soon we were chatting for up to 3-5 hours a day and was talking on phone several times day and night! We both knew very quickly that we needed each other and it had to be us together despite the age-difference.
 I was a little sad cos I could not give her a bouquet of flowers or anything whenever I wanted so instead I transferred a little money and asked her to buy her favourite flowers and a little thing she needed but didnt think she could afford! When I told her about the transfer she said: "I dont want your money! I only want your big heart!!!" When I told her my reasons to send them she accepted and later showed me what she bought and she was happy!
 Shortly after she asked for my permission to go to temple for up to one month as lady-monk! Of course I didnt mind and when I asked  why she told me that she would go to temple praying for me, my big heart and praying for a future together with me in our own Paradise. Jew is known to be a very good buddhist and therefore sometimes stay in a temple for a short or long period. Later we have laughed a lot about it cos after 16 days she left temple coz she missed the close contact on the chat with web-cam even if I could call her several times every day by the phone.
Soon there was no doubt in my mind that she was "for real" and a pure nature/country girl with a clean mind and very good caring heart.
Anyway - Jew invited me to her birthday on August 1 in Bangkok and we agreed that there was no reason in waiting longer to get married co we had to be together!
In my mind it was the only path to walk - and when I saw her in the airport on July 31 I knew we both were in love! Is that wrong???? Is it crazy to feel love so strong that it hurts?? A love that has grown with so much power and still is growing!
Yes I was in Thailand for 36 days, but the only thing that matters was being together so there was no reason to visit the main tourist attractions there! In stead we went to the places Jew wanted to show me i. ex. temples, friends and family and I learned a lot of thai way of living and thinking!
Since I left Paradise in Thailand Jew has been in Temple together with a monk who has been in Denmark for a long period.
Now the plan is to build our home in Chuampa Village hopefully to be finished in the summer of 2010 with space and room for Jew.s 2 daughters Imp and Nut too AND with the first hot shower in Chuampa!

Maybe I/we are crazy but the sign above it all says it all: "Love through cyberspace"!